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July 9, 2009

Are You The Definition Of True Swagger?


To put it plainly, swagger is how someone presents themself to society as a whole, they possess the ability to handle a situation with a sense of ease and grace. They have the ability to keep a healthy level of self-confidence, but without coming off as arrogant. They just have a certain effortlessness to their style, the way they walk, talk and dress. A person with true swagger is not easily shaken by anyone or anything.

Even those whose personality tends to be the opposite of swagger can use certain elements of a person who embodies swagger completely. don’t think it necessary to become the very definition of swagger, just adding a small bit of calm and cool to your personality can help you in the long run. If you do happen to become the definition of swagger in it’s human form, you likely already had a ton inside of you all along, but maybe didn’t know how to fully harness it yet.

A person with swagger does not pretend to know something that they don’t. They understand that to be a great conversationalist, they should only expound on what they do know and that they should ask questions about what they don’t know. In doing this, they avoid being found to be a fraud, which is contrary to what swagger is.

In so many ways, a person with swagger will gives other their space! Their is nothing more irritating than being over-crowded by another person. Irritating is contrary to swagger. People who talk too close are NOT displaying swagger, because they make others feel uncomfortable. Someone with swagger gives others room, they do not heat a person’s face with their breath, no matter how sweet their breath may be. Everyone enjoys their own personal space, and they appreciate those who give it.

These people can “slow the moment” when problems arise, whatever the case may be. This means that whatever happens in a given moment, they have the ability to keep their head about them. The person of swagger is not panicked. They can take control of a situation when that is what is called for. But still too, they are able to follow the lead of someone capable of leading when it is appropriate. These people don’t let the emotions of others heighten their emotions. Instead, they remain steady and refuse to cry over spilled milk.

Nothing goes more contrary to the definition of swagger than a disrespectful person. A person with swagger treats everyone with respect. They do not talk down to those serving or working for them, such as employees, waiters/waitresses, bartenders, etc. A person with swagger also tips appropriately and avoids behaving like a cheap-skate.

It’s funny, but people just yearn to be around those with true swagger, because they are fun, charismatic and curiously different. People with swagger have an element of mystery too, which is intriguing. Their cool persona is complemented because they are clean, stylish and a good communicators.

A person who embodies swagger, does not waste time arguing with fools. This is key to maintaining any swagger they may possess. An intelligent debate with another person makes for good conversation and stimulates the brain. But arguing with a fool, even when the person of swagger is 100% correct, makes them both look like fools. People looking on will not be able to tell the difference. A fool is a person who is overly loud, vulgar, substitutes intellect and communication skills with profanity. From such a person, a person with swagger will take their leave immediately and with no regrets.

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Filed under Self-Improvement by Lee Torrey

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July 6, 2009

Four Values To Deepen Exercises To Improve Posture


The first few weeks of a new program of exercises to improve posture can be very frustrating. We tend to overestimate what we are physically capable of doing. We expect our bodies to be fixed instantly.

However, we can temper ourselves with virtues that help us reconnect to the reality of our bodies and help us cope with the more difficult parts of our practice. I have borrowed these four powerful virtues from yoga and tai chi so that we may reap their benefits.

1. Patience

The first week or two of a new exercise routine usually give you big results. You’re working new muscles in new ways, so your muscle adapts relatively quickly. But soon you reach your muscle’s capacity to change quickly, and you must slowly and persistently exercise it to see any gains. This can take time. The same works for your posture. You will see big gains at first, but then you must be patient and do the exercises correctly and consistently. Over time, you will notice an improvement in how you hold yourself up. So keep at it.

2. Modesty

Sometimes, we expect too much of our body. We stretch too far or try to lift too much. We can easily injure ourselves. Often, it is not serious. But when dealing with the spine and tendons, we should be very careful. Our spine is necessary for nearly all functions of the body. Without it, we cannot stand, sit, lift, or roll over.

Remember: you are not invincible, nor are you made of rubber. Your tendons and ligaments can’t stretch more that 4% of their length without injury. You want to gently stretch your tendons and ligaments, only to stimulate them. When your muscles begin to spasm (or twitch), do not stretch further. Your tendons are sending a distress signal to your muscles to protect them from overstretching.

3. Awareness

Paying attention to our own bodies is so important, yet we often just zone out and watch TV while we’re at the gym. We could be feeling all sorts of pain from our body, but we aren’t listening. When your trying to improve your posture, you absolutely must focus on your own body. How are you holding yourself? What is tight? What can I relax? By paying attention to our movements, we can do them more correctly, improve our enjoyment, and increase our quality of life.

4. Grace

A certain elegance helps any movement. Try to find the grace in whatever movement you are doing. Your exercises represent what you want to be. How you hold your posture symbolizes how you feel. Exercise with with your intention in mind. Let your purpose be present during each workout.

These virtues can help you in your practice and in your everyday life. They help deepen a connection with your body and with your environment. A good posture exercise program will touch on this kind of non-physical side to exercise and life. These principles are essential to making your posture practice lead you to great posture and vibrant health.

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Filed under Exercise by Eric Normand

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Correcting Posture And Relieving Neck Pain


There are a lot of different things that can cause neck pain, also body pain as well. However, the main reason that you can have significant body pain is from bad posture. There are things you can do to correct posture, but it is something that will take time and will not be done overnight. Setting yourself up to correct and then prevent bodily pain from posture is the goal.

Here is a list of what you can stop yourself from doing too much so you can also lower the risks of neck pains:

Moving closer to an object that you are trying to get closer to can help relieve the stress on your neck muscles. Holding your head to far away from an object can cause a severe amount of neck pain because of the weight of your head. With good posture, you will evenly distribute your weight to your whole body.

Hunched shoulders maintain too much tension in the area, and tends you to stick your head forward. Do some exercises for rounded shoulders posture to relieve the tension.

Looking at a object that isn’t eye level can cause a lot of tension in the area as well. Try to make sure that if you are looking lets say at a computer screen that you move the screen to a level at which you are not tilting your head up or down in order to see the screen properly.

If you are unfamiliar with the term couch or readers neck, you should realize that most people do it. Lying on the couch with your head propped under your arm watching TV or reading a book can put strain on the neck and give you pain that can be hard to deal with.

Timid head is what they call the cause of your neck pain when you look too much on your feet, straining the neck muscles too hard.

Some people will experience neck pain as well if they hold their chin too high which causes the muscles in your neck to strain as well. Try lowering your chin for better posture should help relieve some of the strain on your neck.

Maintaining good body awareness during the day can help you catch these neck pain culprits. Along with watching after these bad habits, there are still other ways and methods how you can correct and even stop these things from regularly causing you much neck pain.

One of the first things you should do when trying to remedy neck pain is to try and workout the muscles in the neck making them stronger and making them more flexible. You have to be careful when trying to workout the muscles in your neck as they are sensitive and can easily cause more pain, if you do not do the exercises the right way.

If you are not very enthused about taking pills or rubbing ointments on to your skin because of the possible side effects that come with them, then there are other natural methods that you do as well. An all-natural method of helping your neck pain is still the cheapest, but most effective way to get rid of neck pain. If you are someone who suffers from any of these symptoms try correcting your posture to ensure a pain free lifestyle.

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Filed under Health-and-Fitness by Eric Normand

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Work…No Sweat


Excessive sweating, or hyperhidrosis, can rule the lives of some of the millions of people it affects across the world. If you’re one of those people, it can dictate what you do, where you go, even which clothes you wear.

Nowhere else is this more of a problem than when you are at work. No matter what your job, suffering from excessive sweating in the workplace can cause even higher levels of stress and leave you feeling uncomfortable and embarrassed about your problem.

No matter what you’re doing, working in an office in a thin shirt or down in the warehouse in some overalls, if you start to worry about your excessive sweating, the chances are it’s going to happen at some point during the day.

And if you do start to sweat, you start to get stressed, and that makes the sweating even worse!

If you’re more worried about your sweating problem, it makes it hard to focus on what you should be doing. It can be even harder for you to be comfortable working closer to others who might notice your problem. If you suffer from excessive sweating, this might sound like every day you go to work.

Do any of these sound like the kind of thing you’ve tried just to get through work?

- wearing t-shirts under your shirt or overalls

- sneaking off to the washroom to dry your sweat patches with the dryer

- putting a coat or a jumper on in the office, even though it’s the middle of summer

- keeping a spare set of work clothes to change into

- re-applying your deoderant during the day

But these just mask the issue and dont stop you worrying about it, so whilst your colleagues might not notice your excessive sweating, how much time are you spending hiding it from them that you could be spending being more effective at your job?

Worrying about your excessive sweating can leave you short of time to do anything else in the day and you probably hadn’t even noticed the effect it was having.

The International Hyperhidrosis Society carried out a recent survey and found that job-related issues such as going to an interview or confronting a boss made 62% of those surveyed sweat more than any other circumstance.

The IHHS also found that people who were affected by hyperhidrosis in the workplace were limited to carrying out physical duties 25% of the time. They were also limited 20% of the time in carrying out mental and interpersonal tasks, 17% of the time in time-management and 11% of the time for overal work output.

Excessive sweating not only affects how you feel at work, but also how you are perfoming at work, and this probably hasn’t ever occured to you.

Excessive sweating is not recognised on the same level as other ailments that impact on work, but the IHHS went on to say that it can cause similar workplace performance limitations to those experienced by sufferers of depression, rheumatoid arthritis and osteoarthritis.

You could always turn the air-conditioning up or try and avoid any manual labour, or try any number of methods to cover up the problem. But wouldn’t it be great to go to work confident in the knowledge that you didn’t have a problem, because it had been cured, naturally and permanently?

Hyperhidrosis doesn’t have a particularly high profile and the IHHS is working to change this. If you are affected, there are options open to you, you can find out more about one of these below.

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Filed under Health-and-Fitness by Matthew Johnson

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